How Do I Convince My Partner?
Polyamory is becoming more and more mainstream, and more people are recognizing that they have the capacity to include more romantic and sexual relationships in…
Author: Crystal
How to Date as a Couple
Many people who begin the polyamory journey are already married. A common assumption is that the best thing to do would be to date the…
What If I Get Jealous?
It’s my right to be hellish. I still get jealous. -Nick Jonas, Jealous Jealousy is common in all human relationships, and if you’re transitioning into…
2017 for Black & Poly
Merry Christmas! What a year it’s been for Black & Poly. Here’s a roundup of what we’ve seen from black and polyamorous family this year.
Secret Santa
This post contains adult language and content. I’ve never done this before. That was how my ad started. I’d browsed through Backpage and Craigslist and…
Who is Black & Poly For?
A group members asks the Facebook group to be inclusive. Dear Black & Poly, can we visit or revisit the question of whether all black…
Ask Aunty: Black & What Now?
Dear Aunty, Why are there white people in the Black & Poly Facebook group? Black Nation Builder Dear Aunty, Why do the admins silence white voices…
Finding Partners
A common question for those beginning a polyamorous relationship is: Where do I find partners? The answer is amazingly simple, but this post will break…
Black and Poly Dictionary
Confused about all the words used in the poly world? This comprehensive dictionary will help. Use your search function to find out definitions of unicorn,…
Tell Us!
Confession time! Tell us one of your poly mistakes. Here’s one of mine: I dated a poly person who’s primary partner said she was never…