BDSM 101
What is it?BDSM or Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. Historically it is a coined phrase from the “fathers of sexual deviance,” as I like to call them,…
Category: Sex
Mr. & Misogyny
Although the title is meant to be witty and slightly humorous in the name of starting a conversation, the people I’m describing can be quite…
Ask Aunty: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell
Dear Aunty, I’m trying to convince my husband to be poly. He doesn’t mind if I step out on him, but he doesn’t want to…
Bi, Poly, Slut, and Muslim: Reconciling and Understanding It All
Maya is an Arab-American polyamorist. Here she shares her story of sexuality, mental illness, and the power of family. I’m a 26 year old woman,…
Meeting Her
This post contains adult content and language. I’m preoccupied today. I have a ton of shit to do but the only thing that I can…
Meeting Her Continued
My Sir is strict but loving. He asserts his dominance over me and most of the time I’m in awe of him. I’m in awe…
Ask Aunty: Seeking Bisexual Mate
Dear Aunty, How do I find a polyamorous woman to date? I have a wonderful wife and we just agreed to open up our relationship.…
Doin’ It and Doin’ It and Doin’ It Well
Ruby Bouie Johnson responds to recent coverage of polyamory in the national news. I’ve had several weeks to reflect on the recent coverage of polyamory…