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Polyamory is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. It is distinct from swinging (which emphasizes sex with others as merely recreational) and may or may not include polysexuality (attraction towards multiple genders and/or sexes)

Welcome to Black & Poly!

B&P is a blog where we ask the questions and share the stories that too often go unexamined because of fear, or shame. Our goal is to provide an eclectic, culturally rich environment, where people can come together to socialize, learn, and share common interests related to polyamorous living.

We encourage thoughtful discussions about sex, relationships, dating and intimacy as it relates to polyamory. Through this communication we strive to create connections and build a community that understands no matter how one “does” poly, there is no one way or right way to do it thus promoting a warm and welcoming environment where all are free to express themselves without fear of judgement.

We want to give those who are in a place of new discovery, a safe, fun and knowledgeable place grow, and LEARN. As this “lovestyle” is one that is fairly new to our community, it is imperative that we take active roles in leading, and teaching each other. Knowledge is power. Lets be our best selves and show the world polyamory is relevant and real.  Love.

Ron Young

Ron and Lisa


Fear can stop you loving… Love can ease your fears”


  1. von

    I love the B&P group.
    We are constantly learning something new and we have met great people.
    The positive fellowship is awesome.
    Thank You

  2. passionbabigrl

    Ive ben polyamorist for about 3 years with the same sex and opposite sex now.and this lifestyle is the most strongest and enduring one I’ve ever been in.the love and communication is so strong i couldn’t ask for anything better

  3. Bri

    I’ve always been interested in a poly relationship. Looking to find another black female who is to in order to get to know.

    • Ron Young

      Before adding others it is best to learn all their is to know about Polyamory. Feel free to join our fb group just click on the tab at the top of the page and you’ll be directed.

  4. Dan

    Hi! My name is Dan and I am one of the co-producers of the event Beyond The Love (http://www.beyondthelove.org)

    We’d love to have Black & Poly be a presence at our event and would be happy to give you some space for a gather, Black & Poly mini summit, or whatever would support your group. Please let us know if you’d like to be a part of the event at the noted email address.

  5. Michelle

    Hi… Im new to this type of lifestyle…. I’m single and looking for some advice and friends to tslk to… Where is a good place to go chat and get info from???

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