Black & Poly Dating

For five years, Black & Poly has been your resource for information on polyamory and diversity in the black community. Now, we are offering a dating service tailored to your needs!

Introducing Black & Poly Dating!

B&P Dating

-Inclusive: Open to all genders, sexual orientations, and poly configurations

-Educational: Resources to help you on your poly journey

-Worldwide: Celebrating black-identified people and those who love them

-Free for Everyone!

Most of the features are free, but you can become a Premium member to create groups and send unlimited messages per hour. Premium membership is just $2.99 a month!

Sign up now for Black & Poly Dating. Join 11,000 other members and find your future partners!

Win a Gift From Black & Poly

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Ready for a Black & Poly Christmas? Between now and December 8, make a purchase in our shop and you’ll be entered into a drawing to win a poly-themed book ($25 value). Patreon members are automatically entered and patrons who make a purchase will receive two entries. Minimum $10 purchase required.

Shop now and happy holidays!

Local Black & Poly Meetups

Black & Poly is online and in a city near you! With COVID we’re creating more ways to get together. You can now join the Black & Poly Family to get meeting notices, exclusive invites and more for as low as $5 a month! Become a member now.


Black & Poly Atlanta

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Las Vegas

Black & Poly Las Vegas

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London, UK


Los Angeles

Black & Poly Los Angeles

New York City

Black & Poly NYC


Black & Poly Philadelphia


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