Representation Matters
When you talk to white middle class polyamorists, you get the viewpoint of white middle class polyamorists. Olivia Goldhill recently wrote about polyamory and whether…
Category: Race
Black Love: A Family Affair
My grandfather died when I was in middle school. As with all funerals, there are a multitude of family members I’d never met or barely…
The AntiCheat Lie
Can we stop? Seriously, if I hear one more person say the reason they became polyamorous is because they “no longer wanted to be a…
Black, Poly, and Intersectional Feminism
Discussing polyamory as rooted in womanism, not your typical white washed privilege.
Polyamory Research
Polyamory is not new, but rigorous research into the lovestyle has been lacking, especially in the black community. Below we’ve compiled recent research about polyamory.…
Poly is What You Make It
You think being a polyamorous person will erase all of your relationship woes? Guess again. If anything, being poly puts everything under a lens that…
Race Matters
I like white women. Yeah I said it. Not only that, but I love women of all races that inhabit this earth. That’s why, as…
On the Phone with Ruby Bouie Johnson
Evita Sawyers interviewed Ruby Bouie Johnson, therapist and organizer of Poly Dallas Millennium. Learn more about her private practice here. You ever talk to a person…
Black and White
I’m a white man and I want to date black women exclusively…is that so bad? I have no problem with a specific man wanting to…
Dating My Preferences
I don’t like white women. Or black women. Or Asian women or Latinas, for that matter. Okay, that was intentionally provocative and not wholly true.…
